My life revolves around my boyfriend..HELP?

sorry if this is sorta confusing but here it goes....i love my boyfriend so much, but he he has become what my life revolves around. he recently hasnt been able to talk to me much and that has made me soooo upset. its also like he can treat me how ever he wants (not that he usually treats me badly, hes usually good to me) but sometimes i get mad at him but once he starts talking to me and saying all these nice things he has me in control again and im no longer mad at him and i just forget about everything i was upset about! what do i do!? i dont want to reliy on him for everything and i want to stop being so upset about him all the time, but there is no way im breaking up with him!